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“Oh my God! I need a burst of self-confidence quick. I’m stuck with making a banqueting Health and Safety presentation this Sunday. I’ve never done this sort of thing before and I can’t get out of it. Help! Self-confidence where are you when I need you most,” Stacie said anxiously as she took off her navy blue coat, brushing past me, almost knocking me off balance.

Stacie’s like that.

So not wasting any time, I asked her, “How would you rate your self-confidence, where 1 is totally confident and 10 is whoa, no confidence at all.”

I think you guessed it; she went for (more…)

Are you scared to do something, or start off a venture in case you fail Viagra generika ? Is the idea of failure scaring you, putting you off from enjoying the lifestyle that you want?

Here’s a quote I often remind myself of when I feel un-resourceful:

“I quit being afraid when my first venture failed and the sky didn’t fall down.” Allen H. Neuharth

Did you know that one of the biggest forces that stops people from going after what they want to have, become or accomplish in life is fear? Fear of failure and fear of success are the biggest stumbling blocks for many.

When they see fear staring directly at them looking straight into their eyes, they freeze. They bring up all the excuses that they think are reasons as to why they cannot go ahead with whatever they were to do or go after. Viagra soft tabs And they generally make themselves believe their excuses.

Let me ask you this: Have you ever done something that you were scared to do and made a mess of, yet people did not even realise that you made a mess of it? More than likely that has happened to you on several occasions, and you survived through them all, right?

Realise that you are your own worst critic. You are probably the only one who noticed your mistakes, only because you are the one that prepared the material for it. Even if they did notice, many forgive and even forget.

Mistakes will not kill you and neither will so-called failure. Viagra no prescription By the way, failure is success in disguise. Failure is constructive feedback.

So have the self-confidence to stand up and face your fears; whether it is the fear that you will botch it all up, fear that you might forget your words, fear of failure or even fear of success.

Whatever your fear is… you have to face it.

The only way to overcome your fears is by practising and rehearsing, and then going ahead and doing it. In time your croaky voice will be your confident voice and your jelly legs will be sturdy legs.

Facing your fears is an essential part of your personal growth.

…and in believing in yourself.

This allows your self confidence to grow, to strengthen and to motivate you to facing more fears and accomplishing more. Replace your fears, one at a time, with self-confidence. P.S. After all, will the sky fall and hit you on the head if you get it wrong on this occasion? Surely not! As you work on your fears, you will accomplish more, much more in life.

Be ready for a personal breakthrough!

Hani